Monday, November 19, 2012

Surgery :(

 
 
                 A few months ago the Dr that does Beckett's Botox shots told us she thought Beckett may be a candidate for surgery to get rid of all the muscle tightness in Beckett's right leg. This surgery would take the place of him having to get Botox injections in his legs every 3 months. It would be a permanent solution that works much better than Botox.
 
 
Sounds interesting. The catch?
 
 
This surgery (called Rhizotomy) is done by removing anywhere from 1-5 vertebrae from the spine & then cutting several of the abnormal nerves that run from the spinal cord to the legs. It's a big deal...huge. Not really what we wanted to hear but we also hate doing the botox injections, it's traumatic & they don't really make a huge difference in his right leg.
 
So we agreed to think about it. We researched & prayed & discussed it. And we decided to meet with a Neurosurgeon at Vandy to see what he thought & see if this surgery would even be a good option for Beckett.
 
So we met with the surgeon and his team of physical therapists & they agreed that Beckett should have the surgery.
 
We have done a lot of research (& so has Michelle, Beckett's Physical Therapist!) and it does seem like this is the best option for us. If the muscles in Beckett's right leg continue to stay so tight they can eventually pull his hip out of alignment &/or cause joint damage that would have to be surgically repaired anyway.
 
And even though operating on someone's spinal cord is always risky, there have been very few cases of paralysis or other bad outcomes. The worst side effect is weakness right after the surgery since the tone, or increased tightness, is finally gone. Because of the weakness it is required that patients go into intensive Physical Therapy after surgery to help strengthen the muscles & work on proper alignment & technique.
 
The intensive PT part could be done at EuroPeds (the therapy center in Michigan that we have been fundraising to send Beckett to). I've talked to the therapists there and they see lots of kids after Rhizotomy and have had good results.
 
So the other issue is that if we are going to go through with this surgery we want the best doctor who has done the most of these operations. And that is Dr Park in St. Louis. We are in the process of getting an appointment with him so he can evaluate Beckett & see if he could do the operation. If so, we would be traveling to St Louis for surgery & then to Michigan a little later for 2 weeks of therapy.
 
So needless to say we have had to adjust our fundraising goal! Hopefully (fingers crossed), insurance will pay for a majority of the surgery but we will still have to cover for what they don't pay plus taking time off work, hotel & travel, food, and then all of the therapy afterwards.
But we are lucky to have such great family & friends who have already been a huge help & have been brainstorming new fundraising ideas! So pray for us, that we will be able to put aside all the stress & worry about this operation and make an informed decision as to what would truly be best for Beckett. And if you are able you can donate by clicking on the donate box to the right of the screen or at the top.
 
You can read more about the surgery if you click the link above (Dr. Park...), their website is very good.
 
 
 
Patrick & I would also like to say a huge THANK YOU & BLESS YOU!!! to everyone who donated in memory of Patrick's uncle, Gerry Wayne Konig, last week. Gerry Wayne passed away last Wednesday and his amazing family asked that donations be made to Beckett's fund in lieu of flowers. I'm so glad that Gerry Wayne was able to come to Beckett's birthday party a few weeks ago, he was so sweet and we will all miss him.
 
 
 
Momma's boy moment...
 

But just for a moment because he is all about Daddy!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


Monday, November 12, 2012

 
Beckett's Story
 
 
I know that most of the people who read this blog already know all about Beckett. But we have recently been fundraising for Beckett's Physical Therapy trip & we have been reaching out to lots of new people who may not have ever met Beckett or heard about his accident. So above this post is a heading, "Beckett's Story", where they can read about Beckett's history & understand how we got here.
 
Thank you to everyone who has donated their time & money for our family.



ps- I fixed the EuroPeds link, sorry for any confusion. While I'm sure it would be lovely we definitely are not raising money to go on a bicycle tour of Europe!



Monday, November 5, 2012

 
Working Hard
 
 
     Just wanted to share how great Beckett has been doing in therapy lately. He recently got some new braces & they are much, much better than his old ones and are really helping him to walk with his heels down. His right leg is our biggest problem since it turns inward so bad & the botox injections can't really do much for it. But hopefully we will be able to correct it as he grows & we're looking at some other options to try.

      He has also been doing better at entertaining himself at home. Typically if we are home he is crying for someone...usually his daddy... to hold him. His favorite words are "Up pease" and "Hold me". Here is a video of him trying to convince me to pick him up.
 
 
 
            And yes I picked him up as soon as I stopped taping.
 
     But lately he has done a lot better at playing in the floor by himself or with Emerson. He doesn't ever play with any toys but he has been crawling around & exploring more. He loves to open & close all the doors & cabinets. And he & Emerson have been wrestling a lot, they like to take turns trying to ride each other or knock each other over.
 
    His speech has really improved as well. Last night Patrick told him to say "Oh man mom" (after I announced that it was bed time) and Beckett repeated it just as clear as could be. He has corrected himself with saying "s" and "c" sounds; he says "Paci" now instead of "Padi" like he used to. He will also say "Cassie", one of his nurses at Special Kids, which has always been a difficult name for him. He will try to repeat pretty much anything you ask him to now, and usually does a pretty good job! Just working on those "L" sounds still!

     Today we went for a follow up visit with the eye dr. We have been patching Beckett's right eye for several hours a day for the past few months to try & strengthen his left eye. His dr today said that she feels like it's helping & that she noticed him using his left eye more than he has previously. So good news! Unfortunately, he still needs to wear the patch everyday but she cut it down to 3 hrs.

     We are really excited about all the progress he's been making lately. We're just praying that it continues and that we are able to provide him with as much help & therapy as possible! We've been working on lots of different fundraising ideas for his trip to EuroPeds for "Physical Therapy Camp", more details soon!!


And here's a pic I found today from his 1 yr photos, so sweet!!